Probably Elden Ring. The nost important thing to remember when you are struggling is that the game gives you a ton of options to tackle many problems: do it in a way that makes sense to you. If that’s magic, go for it. If it’s carrying a bow and arrow to lure enemies, thats also good. Summoning friends? Even more fun!
Developers deserve some blame, but Nvidia does a lot of work to get them to use their proprietary stuff that inly runs “well” on their most recent, high-end GPUs.