
I quit playing last year after almost 2000 hours.
Too many racists, sexists and otherwise toxic bullies and cheaters.
The devs giving them a second chance and lifting the ban on most of them really broke my trust.
I still intend to coming back next season after this break. I really enjoyed my time, at least until the number of hackers exploded and am hoping to find at least a little bit of that spark again.

Windrose is an upcoming pirate survival crafting game, that supposedly got some good ship gameplay.
https://store.steampowered.com/app/3041230/Windrose/
There’s a demo available.

There is a way to play privately with only your friends, although unofficial, not supported by Rockstar and only on PC. It’s a little program call ‘RDO Lobby Manager’ and it modifies your game in a way, that you get put on your own server. Your friends need the same program.
Maybe I magically attract those toxic people. Could also be my regular crewmate who plays a female black pirate and gets double the bullshit. I have a few videos with us being called the N-word and screenshots with horrible ship or guild names and Rare barely does anything about it.
I don’t play open crew. Only with friends.

There is a browser extension which redirects you to all the non fandom wikis. https://getindie.wiki/
The player numbers are dwindling. Looking at the comments on Rare’s announcement videos, people are not happy with the past few seasons and updates.
My bad experiences also come from playing the hourglass PvP a lot.